Its 4 A.M. and once again sleep has eluded me. I did the dishes, took out the trash, swept and mopped, then sat down and watched a movie. Still wide awake. Today was a difficult day.
Rob came and picked me up and I stayed the night there. I suppose this would be two nights ago now. He told me he missed me, how he realized how much of an idiot he had been and how he needed me to go with him. I told him id need to think about it and we'd have to talk about things. A few cigarettes and me taking care of him (forcing him to eat some bread and drink some water due to heat induced nausea) later we slept. I took the couch, he took the bed.
He didnt offer to have me sleep on the bed with him. I mean, it makes sense. Its A small bed. If we cuddled though we could have made it work. I wouldn't have done it though. I'm tired of being treated like a yo-yo. In the end all I am for him is a friend he can use to scratch an itch his female fiance can't ever reach. That and a safety net he can land in whenever things get too rough.
I drove home the next morning because he was too tired to drive. Neither of us had gotten much sleep. I'm used to it though. On the drive there we did a little talking punctuated by long minutes of silence. I told him no. I can't go with him. Not only would it be difficult for me to afford, the emotional trauma id face being in love with him and seeing him run back to her after every time we touch would kill me. Although I didn't tell him that part. I can't bring myself to hurt him.
He broke down into tears, told me again how much he needed me, how much he needed his best friend. That stung. We were more than that once. I guess its time for me to let go. I just don't know how.
Now I lay in bed wondering if there ever was a time when I really was happy. Sure, there are moments when a fleeting happiness strikes me, but there always seems to be some lingering sadness or doubt somewhere in the back of my head. I see people all around me all the time and I wonder if they feel it too or if I'm just crazy. My mind is self destructive and I hate it. I need therapy, but from experience therapy only works as long as you remain going and life long therapy sessions is not something I look forward too. Neither does my wallet.
And how would that look? As if I didn't have enough working against me already. I suppose actually going to a therapist takes it from wondering if I'm crazy to really being crazy. It makes it real. And who wants to be with some crazy guy? I mean think about it. If you found out someone you were considering dating had regular therapy sessions you'd be running for the hills. Crazy isn't attractive. Well, I guess Rob would beg to differ.